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Why You Must Surround Yourself With People Who Get It

Your Inner Circle Matters

We have moments in life where we start to reflect on the things that have happened to us and events that may spark us to change in some way. These moments can arrive at the end of a year or a milestone, such as your birthday. It can also happen from a tragic event.

A critical factor in making any lasting change that matters is to surround yourself with people who get it. Not to mention, to set yourself some massive goals!

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You know those conversations you’ve had with people in the past where it feels awkward, and it’s challenging to find something to chat about? Yep, I’m not talking about those types of people.

Not that there is anything wrong with them, of course, but they aren’t in sync with who you are and what you’re all about. So it’s time to find those people who are in alignment with you and your dreams. It’s time to surround yourself with people who will be able to mentor, coach, inspire, challenge, and encourage you to become more.

On the other hand, you know those people where you have an instant connection and are vibing on the same level? Conversation flows, interests align, and you could say that you’re like-minded.

How do you surround yourself with people who get it?

Some of the best ways to do this are to make a list of all of the things that you love and want in your life. From this list, you can start to think about where these people may hang out.

Are they part of any online communities or groups?

What hobbies do they have?

Some suggestions:

www.meetup.com – Here, you can join local meetup groups for different interests. They are great opportunities to meet other like-minded individuals.

Facebook – Use the search bar on Facebook to find private communities in a niche that you’re interested in. You can request to join private groups and freely join public ones.

YouTube – YouTube is a great place to go to find free information from content creators who may specialize in the niche you’re in or be able to help you with a specific result that you’re after.

Private forums – Using google, you can search for private forums within a specific industry. For example, if you want to learn about bodybuilding, www.bodybuilding.com has one of the largest active fitness forums online.

Invest in an online program – There are many coaching programs or online courses that offer strategies for learning specific skills. I have invested well over $20,000 on courses and coaching programs for self-growth. Why? Because they are a fantastic way to help you shift to a new level in life.


For us to go far in life, we can’t do it alone. We need to be around people who operate on a higher level. Make sure that you are always looking for ways to evolve and grow and to ultimately live a life with more fulfillment.

To your success and happiness.

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Paul Wadsworth

Paul Wadsworth is a transformational mind, body, and lifestyle coach in Vancouver BC. He helps people worldwide to reinvent themselves physically, mentally, and emotionally, so they can live with more energy, confidence, and clarity.

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